Unless you can speak some Thai – a skill which can surely help “melt the ice” in the beginning – the language barrier is often another obstacle when trying to establish contact with a Thai lady in an everyday situation, for example, in a shopping mall or club.
For many Western men, the delicate working background of ex-bar girls might also pose a psychological problem.
But where to meet a “normal” Thai girl who has never worked in a bar and isn’t dating you just because you’ve paid her bar fine?
Let’s face it, it can be a little tricky to find a nice Thai lady in a “normal” environment that actually wants to go out with you.
Many “normal” Thai women may either shy away from getting chatted up by or may simply not be interested in dating Westerners – also due to social prejudice.
Many of these girls are students from Bangkok and single women from .
If you don’t enjoy traveling, most girls will be happy to visit you at your place over the weekend – though it can obviously also be loads of fun to travel to the Thai countryside every now and then and visit the girls in their hometowns.
Also, if you shouldn’t be really keen on getting married or entering a serious love affair – but simply wish to find a casual sex partner – many girls not only understand but share this desire for sex without commitments.
love, every bar girl knows that she cannot “eat” love – nor does a romantic love affair with a Western guy without pecuniary profits support her kids and family upcountry.
Consequentially, the average bar girl’s expectation of a long-term relationship with a “wealthy” foreigner is primarily restricted to the prospect of a steady income from a regular visitor (a.k.a.