You’ve taken an ABCs Bootcamp or attended and pre-ordered Gareth Jones’ i Game: From Text To Sex program, so you already know how to get a girl’s number and get a date lined up (right?
The lack of information in the PUA Community about taking women on actual first dates (much less dating and relationships) is a bit misleading.
By the small amount of instruction and education the community and pick up artist forums offers, one tends to think that Same Night Sex is the majority of outcomes from cold-approach pickup. I know we’ll be in a bit of hot water with the ‘Same Night Lay’ companies out there, but allow me to explain.
A cold-approach pickup is a tumultuous art that can result in several outcomes.
From a cold-approach, you can get a number, you can get a makeout, you can get a makeout and a number, a Same Night Lay, or even the infamous double cold approach threesome made infamous by Johnny Wolf! Since you and a lady have exchanged information at the club (or bar, or bookstore, or café) and she’s now chomping at the bit to see you, it’s your job to make the first move towards a first date both memorable, interesting and romantic.
For example: If we want to make sure that place will be able to accommodate us when we do arrive, we need to make the reservations.
If you want to make sure you don’t spend an hour getting lost, either have GPS or printed directions. Accept 100% of the responsibility so that if she offers to do something (foot the bill, get the drinks, order the deserts), it will not only be a weight off our shoulders, it will be a pleasant surprise.Now that we’re ready to design a date, we have to choose some things to do. I say “some things” because one activity does not a date make.Now, don’t get me wrong; this is not old-fashioned chauvinism.This is the only way to ensure everything happens the way we want it to.If we want to make sure we get to a location in a timely manner, we need to be in control of the mode of transportation, whether it be to drive or to research the transportation effectively.This is about being well-prepared, well-planned, and in control of logistics.